In this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:
Autistic hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, are joined by autistic author, Becca Lory Hector. Topics include:
Midlife autism diagnosis…and all of the bumps and bruises along the way to get there. Plus, is autism really “over-diagnosed”?
Why identification is so important—at any age.
A neuro-affirming way to process, unpack, and grieve after diagnosis.
“Autistic preppers bags”: what they are and why we need them.
The ultimate place for “hobbity” people to get lost in the woods.
Navigating relationships post-autism identification, including mixed-disability relationships.
The nuances of masking: who, what, when, where, and why.
Quotes (from Becca) from this episode:
“An undiagnosed autistic person cannot—it's impossible—to take care of yourself. You don't have the information you need.”
“And while we're expected to move on with our lives when our reality gets invalidated, neurotypicals really struggle when we do that to them.”
Ode to the McNugget: “The perfection of McDonald's chicken nuggets is something to be marveled at a savory symphony of taste and texture accompanied by instant comfort and joy. Each golden crispy nugget is a bite of bliss. A delightful treasure, perfectly seasoned and cooked to tender, juicy excellence that pairs perfectly with the salty, savory goodness of their fries. The fries with their ideal crunch on the outside and soft, fluffy insides are the perfect companion to the magic of nuggets. Dipping them both into a favorite sauce creates a harmony of flavors to delight your senses. For me, McDonald's chicken nuggets aren't just a meal, but a joyful escape that consistently brings meaningful pleasure and comfort to my life. And no matter how many times I go, eating nuggets and fries remains a cherished ritual that brings me guaranteed satisfaction with every bite. Whether it's a reward after a doctor's appointment or a quick treat to lift my spirits, McDonald's chicken nuggets remind me that simple pleasures can bring the greatest joy.”
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Show notes and resources:
For a limited time, early listeners can get their FREE copy of Becca’s book at: www.AlwaysBringYourSunglasses.com
Course: Self-Defined Living - A path to a quality autistic life
Becca’s website, Facebook, and Instagram
Other episodes to check out if you liked this one:
Episode 21: Dino Nuggets are Autistic
Episode 47: Autistic Centered Therapy - AuCT
Episode 61: Wikipedia is Autistic
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Matt’s social media: Autistic Connections Facebook Group
Learn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference Press
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TACP’s Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop
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**TACP recognizes that ABA for autism is harmful to Autistic mental health. We reject the use of ABA therapy and pathologizing language like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and associated functioning labels and the harmful monolith: Autism Speaks. To learn more, please listen to: Episode 20: Sesame Street is Autistic and Episode 24: The Trouble with Temple Grandin.
Episode 66: Sunglasses are Autistic