In this episode of The Autistic Culture Podcast:
Hosts, Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss the challenges that autistic AFAB people face during pregnancy and childbirth.
The biggest struggle with being autistic and pregnant is not realizing that your needs are not being met.
There is very little information and research available on pregnancy and autism. Autistic people have unique needs and heightened sensitivities during pregnancy that often go unrecognized and unaccommodated.
Angela shares about her severe morning sickness throughout pregnancy, her list of safe foods dwindling to just two semi-safe foods, and how she didn’t experience the “woo woo” connection to the fetus that other women described. Instead, she described it feeling like a "football-sized tumor."
She faced criticism from others for not having a "typical" pregnancy experience and was abandoned by her care provider for asking questions like, “Why are you doing this very painful thing?” Many allistics (including doctors) expect autistic people to comfort them by masking even during major physical and hormonal changes.
Our study found that women with ASD face unique challenges during childbirth that differ from those of neurotypical women. Participants often felt belittled, ignored, and uninformed about the care they received and being placed at the center of attention was often seen as negative and hindering rather than positive.
Giving birth in hospitals can be problematic - high rates of medical interventions are pushed to maximize profits. Things like due dates, pitocin drips, epidurals and C-sections often happen by default regardless of the pregnant person’s birth plan. Angela ended up with an epidural that didn't work and an unplanned C-section.
Working with a doula helped Angela feel prepared through detailed explanations of what would happen, why, and when. This helped mitigate anxiety and trauma from medical interventions.
The hosts emphasizes the need for community, story sharing, and trauma-informed care around pregnancy and birth for autistic people. Self-understanding and identity is key in advocating for one's needs.
What was your Autistic experience of being pregnant? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!
Article: Autism, pregnancy and childbirth
Video: Autistic Pregnancy: How I coped
Article: Autistic and pregnant
Study: Pregnancy in autistic women and social medical considerations
Play script: Birth By Karen Brody
Book: Pregnancy Childbirth and the Newborn: The Complete Guide by Penny Simkin
Book: The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth by Henci Goer
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